Please have a glance at the well thought through FAQ page I’ve put together to hopefully answer everything you need to know about the business side of things.
How Do You Best Describe Yourself?
I’m a person who doesn’t take themselves all too seriously. I like to laugh as laughter cures all the blues and it’s healthy. I’m told I’m sexy but I don’t see myself that way – it must be a naturally occurring phenomenon that I’m oblivious to. I also don’t consider myself beautiful but I do think I’m more pretty than beautiful. I’ve always wondered with age if I will one day become classically beautiful?
My mouth is my best and worst asset. Best because it brings great pleasure to people in so many ways. Worst because I don’t have an off switch and say what I am thinking. What I do know is that I’m easy on the eye, great in bed and a pleasure to be in the company of.
Do You Enjoy What You Do?
I fucking love it! I am sex, sex is me. It is my life. I have a passion for making people happy and satisfied in body, mind and spirit.
So What Makes You Different From The Rest?
Experience. I’ve worked for a long time in the adult industry – 26 years in fact. People can’t learn what I know as it’s all lived experience. My skills are not transferable to others, I cannot teach them or share them with others – they are uniquely mine and they are almost perfect.
I’ve experienced the whole spectrum of sex work. I’ve been high class escort and I’ve been a survival sex worker. I have worked internationally servicing the very top of their field businessmen and celebrities right the way through to the underprivileged. I am currently sitting comfortably somewhere in the middle where I have a lot of choices in how I conduct my work and a lot of privilege.
What Is The Best Way To Contact You?
I like SMS because it’s straight forward and an easy back and forth exchange. Talking on the phone is not always discreet for me especially if I’m running errands like at the bank or supermarket or working at my other job.
After Hours SMSes:
I rarely respond to smses that come to my phone after business hours – not even the next day. Why? Because at the time you contacted me, you may have been alone and able to communicate there and then however the following day, you may be with your spouse or at work and it may not be convenient for you to communicate then. I use discretion in all communications.
If I happen to see your message outside of business hours – I may respond briefly but won’t engage in long winded chat on my personal time.
Is Your Incall Location Discreet?
My incall location is my private home in an upmarket area on the south side of Brisbane in Kuraby. Discretion is assured by me and expected by you.
What About My Personal Details, Will My Privacy Be Respected?
Absolute discretion is exercised with all your personal information. I’m old school where I still believe the foundation of the sex industry is based and dependent upon discretion, trust and honesty.
I don’t keep your phone number unless you ask me to. And even if you’ve said I can keep your number – I don’t contact you if I’m having a quiet day to ask you to come see me. Cold calling is not my style. I only contact you under the circumstances you have said I can, such as to notify you of tours.
The security of the information you have allowed me to keep is assured. I have an iPhone with a pass-code on the lock screen and the phone never leaves my house except on tour. I am prepared to wipe the phone remotely with find my iPhone should it ever be stolen or lost.
Is That Really You In The Photos?
Yes, it’s really me! I update my professional photos yearly and the selfies pretty much weekly. I believe in transparency in advertising. You should be able to see who you are booking and have no doubts about my appearance. Always check my selfies as they are more the real me. I don’t much like my professional photos but it’s become part and parcel of this industry in recent years and I needed to keep up or get left behind. They are pretty – the professional photos – but are not quite a true reflection of my beauty, style and personality.
I hear a lot of feedback from clients about how they were duped by a sex worker with fake photos. One of the best ways to verify a sex worker is real is to pay attention to where they advertise. Websites like Scarlet Blue, Escorts and Babes, Available Angels, Dakota Dice, Ivy Societe all have a photo verification process that we need to do and the website places a “verified photos” banner on our ads. This validates that the person in the photos on the ad are indeed that person.
Do You Have An Age Limit?
No I don’t. I used to but have come to realize that a lot of first timers feel safe seeing me – so I’ve removed age restrictions. I do still expect youthful men to be mature and respectful in their approach with me on the phone or in person.
Do You Get Sexual Health Checks?
Absolutely. Every 90 days as stated in the recommended health guidelines for optimal sexual health care. Even though as a Sole Operator I’m not legally obligated to, I do so because I have a high level of health awareness. Every sexually active person should have sexual health checks regularly. If you’re seeing escorts – every 3 months is recommended for you as a client too.
Do You Offer Natural Sex As I Don’t Like Using Condoms?
No, I can’t do that for reasons such as sexual health, pregnancy and finally, the laws. If you don’t like condoms, there is always the option of using a female condom. I keep these in stock for just this circumstance.
Do You Run Specials or Offer Discounts?
No, my rates are more than reasonable for the service I provide. I also offer several levels of services to meet all budgets so therefore there is no need for a special or discount.
A Deposit? What?!
Since the beginning of 2021, I have been asking more and more people to kindly pay a deposit. This is due to the excessive amount of time wasters, no show clients and address collectors crawling out from under their rocks of late.
Let me break this down for those who may not understand:
A time waster is someone who contacts a sex worker repeatedly usually over long periods of time – days, weeks, months and sometimes years – asking to make a booking but usually ghosting when it comes time to choose the time or leaving it at the last moment – basically they dangle the carrot of a booking and I may have spent hours texting with them with endless mindless banter only for no booking to happen and my business made no money for that emotional labor. Known time wasters are now given less time and consideration and are required to pay a deposit to secure the booking.
No show clients: these are people who make a booking and have no intention of showing up at the allocated time. This means I have wasted not only the time on the phone with them, but also the time it took getting ready for the booking and the fact I most likely could have booked someone else in their time – so again my business makes no money for my effort.
Address Collectors: these are predators who simply make bookings to find out a sex workers address. For what reason? Your guess is as good as mine! We’ve never truly worked out the “why” of this type of person. I have always feared it is to come and rob my house or cause harm to me or my property or for some other nefarious or violent reason.
I give all of the above types of people one shot at making a booking with me – contingent on a deposit being paid. If they reject this once – they are never offered a booking again with me and all messages get a “thanks but no thanks” or “I’m fully booked” or I simply ignore them altogether and never respond again.
In regards to Tours and Nuru bookings – let me explain why I would like a deposit.
Tours: Touring costs me approximately $500 a day to be on tour plus my expenses at home. I have minimum amount of time to make maximum amount of income. I need all my available appointment times to be booked by people who will most definitely show up. A deposit establishes trust and gives the person paying the deposit motivation to keep their booking time. Of course a booking time can be moved, along with the deposit but generally it’s to show me you won’t mess me around and I know what I am doing that day with my schedule.
Nuru: Nuru costs me money before you arrive. I mix and heat the gel and I can’t reuse it once that is done – it will go down the drain unless I miraculously get another Nuru booking to replace the one you didn’t show up for! This is why I ask for a deposit for all Nuru bookings. I invest in you – you invest in me.
It’s rough that we can’t just trust each other. Sad thing is – YOU can trust ME – my integrity is strong and I am serious about my work and will be ready and on time for you. Unfortunately a lot people can’t show me the same courtesy.
Regular/returning clients are exempt from paying a deposit as you are well trusted by me until such time you fuck it up – then you will need to pay a deposit to book a time.
Will you run off and retire with my $50 deposit?
The short answer is no. I do understand that there are sex workers out there who do indeed run off with your deposit as a scam and this sucks.
As a long time sex worker this is my advice to you: don’t pay a deposit higher than you can afford to lose. My other piece of advice is to google the phone number of your chosen sex worker and check them out. See that they have an extensive online presence including social media and reviews and that they have an advertisement on a prominent ad site that also verifies the advertisers like Scarlet Blue, Escorts and Babes, Available Angels, Dakota Dice and Ivy Societe. If they don’t have a decent online presence – say they just have the one ad – ask questions of them. Scammers will soon lose interest in scamming you if they think you are on to them.
But I can’t pay a deposit as my wife will see it on our bank statement!!
Yeah you can still pay a deposit, there’s more than internet banking available to you. Think outside the square. Cash deposit ATM’s are everywhere these days. Or novel thought – walk into a bank and make the deposit over the counter *gasp* I know that’s old school and requires you to exercise your legs but being able to do this will show me that you’re committed to the booking and that you go that extra mile for your pleasure.
What is Beem?
Beem is owned by the big 4 banks as a way of instantly transferring money securely between people. On both parties bank accounts it shows up as “Beem refund”. Usernames and account names do not show up on either parties bank account. It is a safe and anonymous way to pay your deposit or service fee.
Is There Anything I Can Do To Prepare For Our Appointment?
Check that you are healthy especially in winter. No colds or flus etc. No coldsores!! This is a big one because I do not carry the coldsore virus and I do not wish to catch it. Also check for a fuzzy tongue and get that shit cleared up – it’s usually a yeast infection and you can get over the counter medication called Nilstat for it.
Being freshly showered is nice but showering is essential upon your arrival at my incall place – especially for Girlfriend Experience. Freshly shaven face to stop stubble rash on my face and elsewhere would be greatly appreciated. Please trim & file your fingernails if they are jagged, scratches are not acceptable on my body or on my delicate areas.
But I Showered & Used Mouthwash Before I Left Home!
That’s nice of you and thank you but following your at home shower, I’m sure you’ve sweated a little down there on the drive over and slipped out a sneaky fart. These things make you smell not so fresh in the area where my face goes. Please, just shower at my place. Mouthwash doesn’t last long for fresh kissable breath. It’s best to use directly before kissing commences.
I Want More Photos – Can You Send Me More Private Photos?
I don’t need to send you private photos to your phone due to the fact that I only advertise on the internet and all ads where my phone number is – there are always current photos.
You are always welcome to follow me on Twitter as I post selfies on there very regularly: https://twitter.com/NtyNikki or @NtyNikki
I also have a paid adult content account on the Only Fans website. It’s USD$6.99 a month and I post pics almost every day. It’s very similar to Twitter in it’s set up – easy to use and you can cancel at any time. You can find me here: https://onlyfans.com/ntynikki
Why Aren’t You Available 24/7?
Do you work 24/7? No? Neither do I. It’s unrealistic and not physically possible to do so.
But I Really Want To See You Early Mornings, Late Nights or Weekends Dammit!!!
Well, you can if it is absolutely the only time you can book. I will start up to one hour early or work one hour late for you. You must book at least the day before and pay a 50% deposit via Beem or PayID to secure the time.
For bookings more than an hour before my start time or an hour beyond my finish time: please know that I charge double my rates for these outside of hours bookings. Yes, I know these are high fees and it’s not a case of “your pussy must be made of gold” it’s the fact that my time off is very precious to me and if you wish for me to sacrifice it – it must be worth my while to work beyond my boundaries. (This does not apply to pre-arranged outcalls – overnights or an other booking that starts within hours but run beyond)
What Payments Do You Accept?
Cash is my preferred form of payment. I will also accept gift card payments – Woolworths or Coles Giftcard or Bunnings but please talk to me before purchasing the giftcard. Also keep in mind – you can now purchase giftcards via AfterPay – so you can pay them off in installments.
Do You Take Credit Card?
Yes. I have an account to accept credit cards via 247 Billing. It is very secure and discreet.
Business hours on Tour are different to when I’m at home in Brisbane. Touring hours are usually: First Day: 4pm til 10pm then 10am to 10pm all the full days that I am in your city.
Why Won’t You Kiss Men With Bushy Mustaches or Beards?
When I was younger, I had a family member who had a bushy mustache and beard and he would always have snot and food particles in them. This is not something I’ve ever been able to get past and I see them as a bacteria carrying issue for me, so I choose not to kiss anyone who has one that is remotely bushy.
Close cut to the face or very neatly trimmed is fine with me but nothing longer. I will ask you to please wash your facial hair when you shower at my home prior to the service.
If you have any kind of medical device on your person or tubing coming out of your body or a colostomy bag or any kind of medical issue really – please talk to me about this before making an appointment. There are some things I am perfectly fine with. There are some things that I will react with a trauma response should you surprise me with it. It is a harsh response – it’s not you – it’s me and some past trauma that makes me react that way. The point is – please disclose, don’t surprise me.
Can I Pay You With Drugs and Can You Supply Drugs or Viagra To Me?
The short polite answer is no.
I Paid For You – I Can Do Whatever I Want With You!
Actually, no, you cannot do anything you want to me. Consent applies even when there is an exchange of money for time and company or sexual services. You can be charged with a sexual offense if you commit one towards a sex worker. If consent is given and then removed during a service, this must also be respected. Consent can be refused or removed at any time for any reason.