What’s happening the next 3 months in Nikki’s world that may affect you and your planning of making a booking in Brisbane. I’m away on tour in Tasmania from the 29th October til 3rd November then I am taking holidays starting on the 24th November, returning to work on Wednesday 13th December. I don’t work Christmas Day or Boxing Day nor do I work New Years Day.
I’m also looking to pop another one or two tours in there somewhere – one to Sydney and one that is yet unplanned. If you have any suggestions of where I should tour – please let me know!
You may have noticed that I’ve been playing around with my budget service rates lately. I’ve been testing the market to see what fits best for the clients and what makes me feel comfortable offering. I’ve come to a final decision on what has worked best in the last month and have updated my rates page accordingly. I rarely get bookings for these services anyway but I like to keep them just in case someone wants a real basic sex or rubdown service. xox
I really struggle over rates for my services on a regular basis. Today is one of those days. You see, I don’t have the overheads that many others have so I can afford to charge less but then I get judged for doing this by clients as being too cheap. Clients tend to think there is something wrong with me or that I must have fake photos to be this cheap – this is really hurtful when someone says it to me as I do put in all the effort for them with physical appearance, lingerie & clothing, photography and other bits n pieces that go into this business. Can you believe they actually do ask “What’s wrong with you? Why so cheap?” Makes me want to run a higher flat rate and make everyone pay the same for all the services instead of catering to budgets and services desired. Some clients only want a basic exotic relaxation or full service and only want to pay lower $$’s whereas others want all sorts of inclusions and kinks in their time so I created a service for that that’s slightly higher – adjusting the rate for the energy expended and preparation and clean up time. I think that’s pretty fair? I don’t know. If you have any suggestions about what’s fair – send me an email firstname.lastname@example.org or an sms: 0437 728 185 Also like on touring – where it costs at least $1000 a tour to stay in another city for a few days – should I be charging more than my Brisbane rates? I am so conflicted!
I thought a good start to my Musings page was to copy all the tweets that happened on Twitter this week when I answered the viral “Get To Know Me” tweet that was going around.
1. Lost my virginity at 16 to my best friends brother doggy style on her beanbag while she was at work & a Mad Max movie rerun was on the tv.
2. I’ve never had children because I have a paralysing fear of pregnancy & childbirth.
3. I’ve been self employed in one business or another since 1989 even when I worked for an employer between 90 & 96 I still owned a business.
4. I’m a reformed smoker. 6 years off them but I don’t preach to other people about quitting.
5. I learned to drive in a 4 speed XC falcon V8 with a double clutch!
6. I had my first genuine personal lesbian experience in Las Vegas with an off the clock co-ho after a night out on the town.
7. Obesity genetically runs in my family and I find it a battle to fight it. That’s why I fluctuate up and down in weight.
8. I shoot a gun very well.
9. I’ve always wished I could be an elegant courtesan but I’m too much of bogan to be one. I wouldn’t even be able to fake it!
10. The only sport I play is Pokemon Go.
39. I don’t like my ears being licked or sucked.
40. Left school in grade 10. I hated school as I was bullied for my sister being a teacher at the same school. I got called Teachers Pet.
41. I LOVE Mi Goreng instant noodles.
42. The beach and ocean are the battery charger for my body, mind and spirit.
43. I once licked a clients bald head on impulse because it was so smooth and I just want to do that!!
44. Out of all the sexual acts (of which I’ve done many) – passionate kissing is the only one that genuinely turns me on.
45. My parents supported my choice in being a sex worker 100% from the start.
46. My favourite book and movie is Gone With The Wind.
47. At home, I never take the garbage out. I don’t do garbage and I don’t mop floors.
48. I’ve had sex with a murderer. He was a client who went on to kill several women. He was arrested and jailed. I consider myself lucky.
50. My most famous client was famous for being an extremely powerful man in the US music industry who made or broke careers.
51. I’m scared of big dogs as I was chased and attacked by a neighbours Irish setter when I was a kid.
52. When I worked in an office, I was sexually harassed more than I have been as a sex worker. The owners son used to grope me forcefully.
53. For several years now I’ve really wanted to learn how to make soap & body products.
54. I once had hypnotism done for anxiety over my mums death Another time I had a past life regression where I was a healer in ancient times.
55. I collect stamps. More specifically pre-decimal Australian stamps
56. I’m still friends with my ex fiancé 21 years on after breaking up. In fact I’m friends on Facebook with his wife!
58. I like to watch a tv series at least twice. Once as it comes out week to week then binge watch all episodes after the series has ended.
60. I once took a carrot from the fridge when I was a teenager, masturbated with it, washed it and put it back in the fridge
61. I’ve been charged by the police twice on multiple offences. Found guilty once. I didn’t do it both times
62. I LOVE foot rubs!!
63. I rarely do the speed limit but have been quite lucky in not getting caught!
64. My right nipple is more sensitive and seems connected to my clit than my left nipple which just feels ok.
67. I’d totally fuck Alexander Skarsgard given the chance.
68. If it itches – I scratch it. Even in public.
69. Hehehe I’m up to 69. I like 69’ers.
70. I’ve never licked a butthole.
71. I was held for many hours by the FBI at the US/Mexico border as a suspected drug trafficker. I was only border hopping to renew my visa!
72. I have a pillow fetish – so to speak. I have a compulsive need to buy a new pillow to sleep on every 6 weeks or so.
73. My first sex work job was an outcall. 2 guys – 2 sex workers – one bed! I’d never been naked in front of so many people at once before!
74. I hate wearing stockings. I’ll wear them for photos but any other time nope. They give me leg muffin top and they feel uncomfortable.
75. My biggest wish at the moment is to have at least a month off to finish writing my book.
76. I was set to marry in 1996 but he cheated on me with a SW – it’s how I became a SW I went to tell her boss off for the SW dating clients.
76 cont. and the boss and I became friends and eventually co-workers. And are still friends to this day.
77. I hate my smile. The big one with lots of teeth. I think it makes me look evil.
78. I swear a lot! Favourite curse words are fuck and cunt – usually in the same sentence a lot of the time.
79. I was the first SW to file action with ADCQ against a newspaper for discrimination against SW’s in regards to business advertising-I won
80. The first thing I bought with the first $150 earned from sex work was a watch. My “mentor” said time is money & a watch is a work tool.
81. I’m an online ordained minister. It was along time ago and I did it as a joke. I can’t even remember the name of the “church”
82. I’m currently doing a mentoring course online. I said I’d never be a mentor but I think more trained ones are needed in sex work.
83. People ask me all the time when am I going to retire? Why? There’s no age limit on sex! If people still want to see me – I’ll still work.
84. If I had a cock for a day, I’d so stick it in everything I possibly could!! Including apple pie!
85. I’m not ticklish. Really.
86. I like to be spanked. I find the sting of it that fine line between pleasure and pain.
87. I suffer from anxiety. Sometimes when I’m having anxiety it comes across like I’m a bitch when really I’m just trying to handle it.
88. I like eating icing from the container. Vanilla is my favourite. I don’t do it often though cause sugar and fat!
89. I rarely work nights because my brain is wired to think that night time is rest time. Although when I do work nights – I enjoy it!
90. I have only one sexual fantasy left. Sex with someone who is all woman up top & all man down below. My sexual life will be complete then.
91. I wish pro pics hadn’t become a “thing” for this industry. Every pic I’m in I look like I have constipation. I’m not a good model lol
92. When it comes to food, I hate: cucumber, capsicum, Indian food, Thai food, oysters, most fish, liver – anything organ like & spam.
93. When it comes to sex positions, I like: doggy, woman on top, reverse cowgirl, variations of missionary and my own signature position.
94. Back to food, I like: pasta, cake, chicken, rice, Mexican, burgers, calamari, some salads, prawns, avocado, bacon, bacon & bacon, eggs.
95. Back to sex, I hate: an amateur doing pornstar doggy position, licking your fingers after touching my pussy, spitting, stiff tongue dfk.
131. I owned an ad website in 2000 called Oz Exotics. SW’s said “no clients will look at the internet over the newspapers!”
132. I also owned & ran an ugly mug site called Universal Sex Guide. On the outside it was an advice site but SW’s could login for UM info.
133. I regret leaving behind my “brand” name of Naughty Nikki for Nikki Cox-I thought I needed to grow up but business dropped when I did it